A Year Ago...

As the end of August draws near, I realized that one year ago I had just arrived in Boston and had been stressed over finding an apartment and starting school. That got me thinking about how much has changed since then and how much has happened in a year's time. Here are some of the things that I remember as well as how some things have changed.

1. A year ago MSLC was still growing in Lao's belly!! Now, she is out and about and is filling the world with her smile and spirit.

2. A year ago, my Lolo fell of his bed and broke his thigh bone. I can still remember that night when my uncle called my cellphone and asked to talk to my mother. I can remember seeing her visibly wilt before my eyes while on the phone. The months of recovery that followed were difficult for my grandfather and my mother in different ways. It was a test of will and strength of spirit for them both. Now, Lolo is regularly doing his physical therapy and has started to walk a bit on his own. He made his public "debut" at my cousin's 7th birthday party last May! Yey!

3. A year ago, I used to wander around Boston aimlessly, not knowing the streets or how to get from one point to another. Now, I know enough to share tidbits like what the good restaurants are or what bus or train to take to get somewhere.

4. A year ago, I did not know how to: a. cook, b. unclog a toilet, c. use a washing machine. Now, I do.

5. A year ago, I didn't know why people say they can't or don't want to go back to Manila. Now, I think I can understand what they mean. It's not just that they value their independence or that things are easier here-- less traffic, more organized & efficient-- but there's just so much more you can do. And the things you want to do, you CAN do. There's a system in place that lets you to do what you want to do. You can rent things (from cars, to cabins to camping gear or ski clothes). There's variety-- skiing in the winter, sailing in the summer... Not to mention the other things to do and see in the other 49 states. Lastly, it's easier to be middle class here-- quality of life seems to be better.

5. A year ago, I wasn't engaged. Now, I am. Haha.

What do you guys remember from where you were last year and how does it compare to where you are now?